Long weekends are extremely nice, aren't they? Especially when the weather is as beautiful as it has been here in Chicago over the last few days... But more often than not, long weekends are due to the national observance of something much more important and profound than a day off work to drink beer and get the grill going. The greatest realization, though, seems to be finding the balance between strict, solemn observance and truly enjoying the freedoms that we do have because of those that have fought on our behalf throughout history.
These (now 2-year old) ending remarks from Michel Martin (via NPR), sum things up nicely, I think ::
Before Memorial Day became the day to compare notes about beach traffic, to open the pool, to catch the first summer sales, it was the day to remember those who died while in the nation's service. It was originally called Decoration Day. And while the origins of customs like this are always disputed, it seems pretty clear that the custom of setting aside a day to honor the nation's war dead started in the 1860s, around the time of the Civil War.
Maybe the families started it. Maybe it was those once-removed, who wanted to find a way to show their respect and gratitude for the sacrifice made by the few for the sake of the many. Interesting that this day of commemoration is rooted in a time of such division. Even now there is the inevitable tension and distance between the two meanings of the day: on the one hand, those who just want and need a day to relax, and those who want and need a day to mourn. There's a human need for both ? for refreshment and celebration, for pause and remembrance.
But it seems fitting that those who are not carrying the burden of grief should pause to remember those who do.
So, to the men and women who are serving around the world, to the families who support them, we thank you.
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Whether you're taking the day off work to honor veterans at a community event or to relax with your friends & family - or even if you didn't take the day off at all - use this holiday as a way to pause for a moment and remember what you have and why you have it. Think positively about what is good in your life and why you are lucky... and use those feelings to be better to yourself and those around you - all year long.
(image is a composite image of me last night at Winnemac Park... Jw was playing around with long exposure shots and a new tripod... Hey, some people spend their holiday grilling out and going to parades - we spend them taking crazy photos ;)